Steps?

Recently, I talked a friend who explained the concept of steps in a relationship to me. Am I the only one who didn't know about these? Apparently, it's also very impolite to skip a step. That's a bit dry isn't it? I don't think a relationship should be, "Okay, now that I've done that I can do this." If you want real passion things shouldn't be plannned; they should just happen. Get caught up in the moment. I thought that's how things were supposed to work. Then another friend brought up the step of...well, sex. That's a whole different thing. You all know my feelings about that. It's overrated. I'm not ready. Don't get me wrong, my significant other is quite desirable, quite desirable. It's just, I'm too young. One day, sure. I'll rock you like a hurricane. I'll wreck you. Whatever you want. The theme is, ladies and gentlemen, spontaneity is passion.